When You Feel the Pressure to Diet…
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When You Feel the Pressure to Diet…

Feeling the pressure to diet after realizing your clothes fit differently? Before jumping into restriction mode, pause. This blog explores why we panic over weight changes, how diet culture fuels shame, and what to do instead. Learn how to nourish yourself, break the guilt cycle, and make intentional choices without falling into the trap of endless dieting.

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3 Myths About EMDR Therapy That You Need to Stop Believing
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3 Myths About EMDR Therapy That You Need to Stop Believing

Think EMDR therapy isn’t for you? You’re not alone. Many women who have always been the strong one hesitate to try it, believing their trauma isn’t “bad enough” or worrying it will make them feel worse. But what if those beliefs are keeping you stuck? This post breaks down three common myths about EMDR therapy—so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start healing.

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How Trauma Shows Up in Your Everyday Life & What To Do About It
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How Trauma Shows Up in Your Everyday Life & What To Do About It

Do you overthink conversations, react more intensely than you’d like, or feel constantly on edge? Trauma can show up in everyday life in ways you might not realize, affecting your emotions, relationships, and ability to relax. This blog explores how unresolved trauma keeps you stuck and how EMDR therapy can help you break free, feel safe in your body, and finally move forward.

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Uncomfortable Silence? Why your therapist is quiet.
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Uncomfortable Silence? Why your therapist is quiet.

Silence in therapy can feel awkward maybe even unsettling. But what if that pause isn’t empty, but full of possibility? Many high-achieving women struggle with overthinking, people-pleasing, and self-doubt, making it hard to sit with their own thoughts. Your therapist’s silence isn’t neglect, it’s an invitation. An invitation to hear yourself, trust your intuition, and break free from old patterns. If therapy has ever felt frustrating because your therapist didn’t "fix" things right away, this post will help you understand why that quiet moment might be exactly what you need.

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Rebuilding trust in yourself after a breakup: A Therapist’s Guide
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Rebuilding trust in yourself after a breakup: A Therapist’s Guide

Struggling to trust yourself after a breakup? If you’re stuck replaying past mistakes, overanalyzing red flags, or doubting your worth, you’re not alone. This guide breaks down trust—what it really is, why breakups shake it, and how to rebuild it within yourself. Learn how to recognize your patterns, rebuild self-trust, and step into your next chapter with confidence.

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Why Your Past Isn’t As Far Away As You Think…
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Why Your Past Isn’t As Far Away As You Think…

Valentine’s Day can bring up a mix of emotions—longing, frustration, or the sense that love just isn’t working for you. Your childhood shaped how you connect with others, influencing how you trust, communicate, and seek love. Trauma doesn’t stay in the past; it rewires your nervous system, making unhealthy patterns feel familiar. If relationships feel exhausting or repetitive, it’s not just bad luck. Understanding these patterns is the first step to breaking the cycle and building the love you deserve.

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Why Talking About Your Trauma Isn’t Working for You—And What You Can Do Instead
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Why Talking About Your Trauma Isn’t Working for You—And What You Can Do Instead

Struggling with heartbreak on Valentine’s Day? You’re not alone. Social media, comparison, and unmet expectations can make this season feel overwhelming. Ignoring your feelings won’t make them go away. Learn why this happens and discover practical strategies to navigate Valentine’s Day with self-compassion—so you can protect your energy, set boundaries, and take care of yourself in a way that truly supports your needs.

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8 Healthy Habits to Try Out This Winter
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8 Healthy Habits to Try Out This Winter

Discover healthy habits to boost your mental and physical well-being this winter. From soaking up morning sunlight to embracing intentional routines, this guide offers simple, therapist-approved tips to help you stay connected, energized, and balanced when you’re beginning to feel the winter blues.

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What You Need To Know If You Want To Lose Weight This Winter
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What You Need To Know If You Want To Lose Weight This Winter

Wondering why losing weight feels so hard this winter? As a therapist working with overachieving women, I dive into the hidden emotional and mental barriers that might be sabotaging your goals. This blog explores how stress, self-criticism, and deeper patterns can impact your health journey—and offers compassionate, practical tips to help you achieve your 2025 wellness goals.

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New Year, Same You: Why You’re Already Enough.
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New Year, Same You: Why You’re Already Enough.

Feeling pressured by New Year, New You messaging? The start of the year can fuel insecurities with endless ads for quick fixes and unrealistic goals. What if you embraced where you are instead of chasing down perfection? Discover how to align your goals with your values and build confidence without the shame spiral.

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An Overthinker’s Guide to Reflecting on the Past Year Without Spiraling
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An Overthinker’s Guide to Reflecting on the Past Year Without Spiraling

Overwhelmed by New Year’s resolutions or doing a year end reflection? You’re not alone. Many women struggle with self-criticism when looking back on the past year. Explore a different approach—reflect with compassion, celebrate your wins, and set meaningful intentions for the year ahead without pressure to be perfect.

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How to Stop Overthinking and Actually Enjoy Your Holidays
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How to Stop Overthinking and Actually Enjoy Your Holidays

Overthinking the holidays? You’re not alone. Many women feel stuck chasing perfection—perfect gifts, perfect plans, perfect everything. Learn how to quiet your anxious mind, set boundaries, and actually enjoy the holiday season without the stress.

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The Perfect Gift Doesn't Exist: Embracing Simplicity This Holiday Season
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The Perfect Gift Doesn't Exist: Embracing Simplicity This Holiday Season

Tired of chasing the perfect gift every holiday season? You’re not alone. Many women feel overwhelmed by the pressure to make everything “just right,” often at the expense of their own joy. This year, let’s shift the focus back to what matters: connection and intention. Explore simple ways to let go of perfectionism, embrace what feels good, and actually enjoy the holidays.

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Taking Charge of Your Social Needs: A Holiday Survival Guide for People Pleasers
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Taking Charge of Your Social Needs: A Holiday Survival Guide for People Pleasers

Feeling drained by holiday social events? You’re not alone. Many women struggle with social anxiety with the flurry of holiday parties and get togethers. The good news? You can protect your energy and create a plan to enjoy this season. Discover practical tips for managing holiday stress, saying no gracefully, and feeling confident about yourself.

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Holiday Travel Tips for Anxious Women
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Holiday Travel Tips for Anxious Women

If holiday travel brings on a wave of anxiety, you’re not alone. Many anxious millennials face this challenge, especially around the holidays. If you love seeing new places but dread the flight, these tried-and-true tips will help you manage your anxiety naturally—without depending on medication or alcohol to get you there.

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The World Needs More Angry Women.
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The World Needs More Angry Women.

Your anger isn't the problem—it's what you do with it. Discover why embracing your anger can lead to personal growth and how to express it in healthy ways. Learn how anger is tied to boundaries and safety.

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Your Focus Isn’t As Bad As You Think It Is…
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Your Focus Isn’t As Bad As You Think It Is…

Are you a busy woman whose worried about their ability to focus? Are you struggling to keep up with all your tasks and to do lists? Learn more about how focus works and what might be going on behind the scenes. Besides not feeling good enough, feeling lazy, and blaming yourself. Discover practical strategies to have more focus on the things that matter and give yourself permission to outsource and automate everything else. Read more on the blog!

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How to Be Creative When You Don’t Feel Like It
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How to Be Creative When You Don’t Feel Like It

Are you a high-achieving professional woman struggling to tap into your creativity when self-doubt creeps in? This fall, learn how to nurture your artistic side, overcome your inner critic, and build habits that enhance both your professional success and personal well-being. Discover practical strategies to quiet that critical voice, embrace creative play, and make creativity a rewarding part of your life. Read more on my blog!

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